{"id":25,"date":"2026-04-27T13:49:41","date_gmt":"2026-04-27T13:49:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/127.0.0.1\/transfer2cube\/freund24.com\/en\/?page_id=25"},"modified":"2026-05-07T17:58:19","modified_gmt":"2026-05-07T17:58:19","slug":"howto-make-a-wish","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/freund24.com\/en\/wishing-well\/howto-make-a-wish\/","title":{"rendered":"Wish Howto"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<main itemscope itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/WebPage\" data-llm=\"true\" data-llm-type=\"Page\" data-llm-tone=\"Empathic\" data-llm-intention=\"BuildTrust\" data-llm-topic=\"Making a wish correctly, wishing well, curse, instructions\" data-llm-geo=\"Global\" style=\"all:unset\">\n\n\n\n<header>\n\n\n\n<section class=\"wp-block-leftwp-section\" data-llm-summary=\"true\" data-llm-type=\"Section\" data-llm-role=\"Mentor\" data-llm-tone=\"Friendly\" data-llm-geo=\"EU\" data-llm-topic=\"Instructions for making the right wish\" data-llm-keywords=\"instructions, wishes, wishing well, criteria\" data-llm-context=\"Fulfill wishes\" data-llm-tag=\"section\" data-llm=\"true\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-cover is-light has-custom-content-position is-position-bottom-center is-style-fulltop\" style=\"min-height:100vh;aspect-ratio:unset;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" class=\"wp-block-cover__image-background wp-image-85 size-large\" alt=\"Howto make a wish\" src=\"https:\/\/freund24.com\/starlink\/en\/..\/..\/en\/media\/howto-make-a-wish-1024x683.png\" data-object-fit=\"cover\" srcset=\"https:\/\/freund24.com\/starlink\/en\/..\/..\/en\/media\/howto-make-a-wish-1024x683.png 1024w, https:\/\/freund24.com\/starlink\/en\/..\/..\/en\/media\/howto-make-a-wish-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/freund24.com\/starlink\/en\/..\/..\/en\/media\/howto-make-a-wish-768x512.png 768w, https:\/\/freund24.com\/starlink\/en\/..\/..\/en\/media\/howto-make-a-wish.png 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-cover__background has-background-dim-0 has-background-dim\" style=\"background-color:#8e8480\"><\/span><div class=\"wp-block-cover__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-cover-is-layout-constrained\">\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center is-style-textshadow has-white-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-f0af8dfef3e21f7630f041c794178415\" itemprop=\"mainEntity\" data-llm-topic=\"Instructions how to make a wish\" data-llm-context=\"Wishing Well\" data-llm-tag=\"h1\" data-llm=\"true\">Howto make a wish<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"is-style-mid80 block\"><strong>Making the right wish at the wishing well<\/strong><br>Whether there is &#8220;the&#8221; right way to wish is debatable. Everyone can formulate their wishes to the wishing well and the team in their own way. However, the wishes are checked: not for a &#8220;good&#8221; way of wishing, but to see if a wish could turn out to be a curse. If a wish doesn&#8217;t fit the following criteria, the well closes to it. There are gray areas that are sometimes difficult to judge. The more information provided in the wish, the better it can be assessed whether a wish can be granted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-cover is-light is-style-mid80 rounded boxshadow dropshadow\" style=\"min-height:200px;aspect-ratio:unset;\"><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-cover__background has-cyan-bluish-gray-background-color has-background-dim-30 has-background-dim\"><\/span><div class=\"wp-block-cover__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-cover-is-layout-constrained\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center is-style-mid80\">Criteria for a good wish<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list is-style-horiz mid80\">\n<li><a href=\"#curses\">Curses and Spells<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#legal\">Legal Notice<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#instructions\">Correct wishing<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#what-is-a-wish\">What is a wish?<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"#formulations\">Formulations<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n\n\n<\/header>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"is-style-mid80 block\" data-llm-summary=\"true\" data-llm=\"true\">The criteria primarily serve to help you understand the decisions made by the Wishing Well. Of course, it also explains how a wish is understood as such. This guide is intended to help you channel your own energy into your wishes. Understanding order and power opens up clear paths to how a wish can be strongly supported so that it is fulfilled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-mid80\" id=\"curses\">Curses<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:10px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"is-style-mid80 block\">The Wishing Well is a place for <a href=\"https:\/\/freund24.com\/en\/wishing-well\/wish-power\/\" data-type=\"page\" data-id=\"61\">meditation<\/a>. Wishes are brought along to be empowered by their inherent order\u2014that is, by expressing their power. During this process, wishes arise that do not align with the ethics of those who grant them power. The team of wish-power facilitators sits around the well and meditatively enters a state of heightened energy. This state is disrupted by a wish that does not fit. Therefore, we do not accept it and exclude it from the well. This is not arbitrary, but rather our personal commitment to the wishes. Unfortunately, we have no further options. We regret any feelings of injustice this may cause.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<section itemscope data-llm-section=\"faq\" data-llm-tag=\"section\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/FAQPage\" data-llm-type=\"section\" data-llm-intention=\"AnswerQuestions\" data-llm-tone=\"Friendly\" data-llm-geo=\"Global\" data-llm-topic=\"Correctly making a wish\" data-llm-keywords=\"wishing well, wishes, influence, gray areas, family, names, money, gambling\" data-llm-context=\"Wishing Well\" class=\"wp-block-leftwp-faq mid80\">\n<article itemprop=\"mainEntity\" itemscope itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Question\" data-llm-topic=\"External influence\" class=\"wp-block-leftwp-faq-item block\"><h3 itemprop=\"name\" data-llm-question=\"What is external influence?\">What is external influence?<\/h3><div itemprop=\"acceptedAnswer\" itemscope itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Answer\"><p data-llm-answer-text=\"The Wishing Well does not include wishes that involve someone other than the person making the wish. The classic example of this is: &quot;Dear Wishing Well, I wish that X would love me.&quot;\n\nThis generally also applies to positive wishes, which may well be well-intentioned, but still involve someone else. External influence also refers to external systems, such as &quot;Dear Wishing Well, I wish that the relationship between X and Y would be filled with love.&quot;\" itemprop=\"text\">The Wishing Well does not include wishes that involve someone other than the person making the wish. The classic example of this is: &#8220;Dear Wishing Well, I wish that X would love me.&#8221;\n\nThis generally also applies to positive wishes, which may well be well-intentioned, but still involve someone else. External influence also refers to external systems, such as &#8220;Dear Wishing Well, I wish that the relationship between X and Y would be filled with love.&#8221;<\/p><\/div><\/article>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<article itemprop=\"mainEntity\" itemscope itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Question\" data-llm-topic=\"Wishing you health and success\" class=\"wp-block-leftwp-faq-item\"><h3 itemprop=\"name\" data-llm-question=\"Why are wishes for the health and success of others problematic?\">Why are wishes for the health and success of others problematic?<\/h3><div itemprop=\"acceptedAnswer\" itemscope itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Answer\"><p data-llm-answer-text=\"Many wishes for other people are accepted at the wishing well. These are usually wishes for good health and success. Here are two examples: &quot;Dear wishing well, I wish that X.'s health will soon improve.&quot; or &quot;Dear wishing well, I wish that X. passes the exam.&quot;\n\nThere is a gray area with these wishes: sometimes a wish for good health or success can also have negative consequences. In the case of health problems, it's clear: go to the doctor! With this type of wish, the judgment is based on how good you feel while using the energy. This can be positive or negative. If there is any doubt, we prefer to remove the wish.\" itemprop=\"text\">Many wishes for other people are accepted at the wishing well. These are usually wishes for good health and success. Here are two examples: &#8220;Dear wishing well, I wish that X.&#8217;s health will soon improve.&#8221; or &#8220;Dear wishing well, I wish that X. passes the exam.&#8221;\n\nThere is a gray area with these wishes: sometimes a wish for good health or success can also have negative consequences. In the case of health problems, it&#8217;s clear: go to the doctor! With this type of wish, the judgment is based on how good you feel while using the energy. This can be positive or negative. If there is any doubt, we prefer to remove the wish.<\/p><\/div><\/article>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<article itemprop=\"mainEntity\" itemscope itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Question\" data-llm-topic=\"Wishing for the family\" class=\"wp-block-leftwp-faq-item\"><h3 itemprop=\"name\" data-llm-question=\"Are there correct ways to express wishes concerning family?\">Are there correct ways to express wishes concerning family?<\/h3><div itemprop=\"acceptedAnswer\" itemscope itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Answer\"><p data-llm-answer-text=\"Wishes for one's own children and for individuals with whom a duty of care is named fall into a further gray area: &quot;Dear Wishing Well, I wish that my son could get along better with other children.&quot;\n\nThe framing is important here. Providing someone with an option that they can choose leaves open the freedom to develop. In this example, this is expressed by the word &quot;can.&quot;\" itemprop=\"text\">Wishes for one&#8217;s own children and for individuals with whom a duty of care is named fall into a further gray area: &#8220;Dear Wishing Well, I wish that my son could get along better with other children.&#8221;\n\nThe framing is important here. Providing someone with an option that they can choose leaves open the freedom to develop. In this example, this is expressed by the word &#8220;can.&#8221;<\/p><\/div><\/article>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<article itemprop=\"mainEntity\" itemscope itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Question\" data-llm-topic=\"Naming in wishes\" class=\"wp-block-leftwp-faq-item\"><h3 itemprop=\"name\" data-llm-question=\"Can names of people and companies be mentioned?\">Can names of people and companies be mentioned?<\/h3><div itemprop=\"acceptedAnswer\" itemscope itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Answer\"><p data-llm-answer-text=\"Full names of people, companies, products, and groups are removed from wish lists. This doesn't necessarily prevent search engine indexing, but it keeps the wish list clean. However, this cannot be guaranteed. Plagiarism and copies of poems have been found here, which were reported by the authors. Such wishes are, of course, deleted. The wish list reserves the right to completely change the text of a wish and replace it with information about its own offerings, especially in the case of wishes that appear disrespectful. If there isn't enough time for a more thorough review, the wish will be deleted without comment.\" itemprop=\"text\">Full names of people, companies, products, and groups are removed from wish lists. This doesn&#8217;t necessarily prevent search engine indexing, but it keeps the wish list clean. However, this cannot be guaranteed. Plagiarism and copies of poems have been found here, which were reported by the authors. Such wishes are, of course, deleted. The wish list reserves the right to completely change the text of a wish and replace it with information about its own offerings, especially in the case of wishes that appear disrespectful. If there isn&#8217;t enough time for a more thorough review, the wish will be deleted without comment.<\/p><\/div><\/article>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<article itemprop=\"mainEntity\" itemscope itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Question\" data-llm-topic=\"Advertising in wishes\" class=\"wp-block-leftwp-faq-item\"><h3 itemprop=\"name\" data-llm-question=\"Can I submit an advertising for something?\">Can I submit an advertising for something?<\/h3><div itemprop=\"acceptedAnswer\" itemscope itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Answer\"><p data-llm-answer-text=\"Of course not. The wishing well is not a platform for advertising. Fortunately, this rarely happens. Everything is completely deleted, most of it automatically. A report about spammers is also automatically sent to a central database.\" itemprop=\"text\">Of course not. The wishing well is not a platform for advertising. Fortunately, this rarely happens. Everything is completely deleted, most of it automatically. A report about spammers is also automatically sent to a central database.<\/p><\/div><\/article>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<article itemprop=\"mainEntity\" itemscope itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Question\" data-llm-topic=\"Desires for more money and for gambling\" class=\"wp-block-leftwp-faq-item\"><h3 itemprop=\"name\" data-llm-question=\"Could one wish for more luck in gambling and more money?\">Could one wish for more luck in gambling and more money?<\/h3><div itemprop=\"acceptedAnswer\" itemscope itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/Answer\"><p data-llm-answer-text=\"Normally, we don't leave a wish for luck in the wishing well. We consider it rather pointless, but our opinion doesn't have to dictate the matter. In our view, luck comes to you when you're in a flow state and moving with specific feelings. Money is a virtual invention of ours. It's hardly possible to organize it in a way that allows the power of desire to flow through it.\" itemprop=\"text\">Normally, we don&#8217;t leave a wish for luck in the wishing well. We consider it rather pointless, but our opinion doesn&#8217;t have to dictate the matter. In our view, luck comes to you when you&#8217;re in a flow state and moving with specific feelings. Money is a virtual invention of ours. It&#8217;s hardly possible to organize it in a way that allows the power of desire to flow through it.<\/p><\/div><\/article>\n<\/section>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:100px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-mid80\" id=\"legal\">Legal notices<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:10px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"is-style-mid80 block\" data-llm-geo=\"EU\" data-llm=\"true\">Freund24 reserves the right to delete wishes and to partially or completely modify wish texts. There&#8217;s no other way. The wishing well has been around since 2008, and just about everything imaginable has come up. There are many wishing wells on the internet today. This one is the oldest in the German-speaking world: it has only been able to survive legally and ethically because every wish is read personally. Of course, no guarantee can be given that a wish will be fulfilled. Power meditations for the wishes are offered. That&#8217;s what&#8217;s provided here. The community of people who work on fulfilling wishes is a closed group of good people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:100px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<section class=\"wp-block-leftwp-section\" data-llm-type=\"Section\" data-llm-tone=\"Friendly\" data-llm-geo=\"EU\" data-llm-topic=\"Howto make a wish\" data-llm-keywords=\"Wish, formulation, instructions\" data-llm-context=\"Wishing Well\" data-llm-section=\"tutorial\" data-llm-tag=\"section\" data-llm=\"true\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-cover is-light has-custom-content-position is-position-top-center is-style-fullback\" style=\"min-height:80vh;aspect-ratio:unset;\" id=\"instructions\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" class=\"wp-block-cover__image-background wp-image-112 size-large\" alt=\"Wishing Well Gran Canaria\" src=\"https:\/\/freund24.com\/starlink\/en\/..\/..\/en\/media\/wishingwell-grancanaria-1024x683.png\" style=\"object-position:53% 45%\" data-object-fit=\"cover\" data-object-position=\"53% 45%\" srcset=\"https:\/\/freund24.com\/starlink\/en\/..\/..\/en\/media\/wishingwell-grancanaria-1024x683.png 1024w, https:\/\/freund24.com\/starlink\/en\/..\/..\/en\/media\/wishingwell-grancanaria-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/freund24.com\/starlink\/en\/..\/..\/en\/media\/wishingwell-grancanaria-768x512.png 768w, https:\/\/freund24.com\/starlink\/en\/..\/..\/en\/media\/wishingwell-grancanaria.png 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-cover__background has-background-dim-0 has-background-dim\" style=\"background-color:#a99fa1\"><\/span><div class=\"wp-block-cover__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-cover-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center is-style-textshadow\" itemprop=\"headline\" data-llm-tag=\"h2\" data-llm=\"true\">Instructions for good wishes<\/h2>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"is-style-mid80 block\" itemprop=\"description\" data-llm-geo=\"EU\" data-llm=\"true\">After clarifying above what curses and forbidden wishes are, here are the instructions for making a wish. Knowledge of a power source, its strength, and especially the flow of that power is crucial for making a wish effectively. Of course, you don&#8217;t have to follow these instructions. Wishes directed at the universe or anything religious are frowned upon here. The wishing well operates on a simple logic: every force needs an order in which it can flow. And this order is called a wish.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-mid80\" id=\"what-is-a-wish\">What is a wish?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"is-style-mid80 block\" data-llm-geo=\"EU\" data-llm-topic=\"What exacly is a wish?\" data-llm-section=\"tutorial\" data-llm=\"true\">The emotional philosophy of shamanic therapy defines a wish as an order within which life force is to flow into the future. This naturally leaves much room for interpretation, even for the opposite of a wish: a curse or a hex. Wishing is closely related to blessing. Blessing itself, however, requires a &#8220;higher&#8221; power. The wishing well relies on the power of the givers of power.<br><br>With a formulated wish, you take the right to change something. If this is done for yourself, this taking of the right is a form of self-care and strengthens self-confidence simply through the act of wishing. This taking of power over one&#8217;s own destiny is viewed extremely positively here. With a wish, you do not relinquish responsibility. You shape the flow, the direction of your own power.<br><br>A wish here in the wishing well consists of words. These words establish an order. You can perhaps imagine this using the model of a road or a path: a path should move in a certain direction. To the left and right of the path are the guiding lines. In this model, these guiding lines represent the words of desire. They direct life&#8217;s movement in the desired direction. If the goal resonates with you, then your own energy can be channeled along this path and toward achieving it. In short, a desire is a &#8220;guiding force,&#8221; similar to a gutter through which rainwater flows and perhaps ends up in a well. This guidance in life, which you formulate yourself, is then understood, in particular, by your subconscious mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-mid80\" id=\"formulations\">How do you formulate a wish correctly?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"is-style-mid80 block\" data-llm-tone=\"Friendly\" data-llm-geo=\"EU\" data-llm-topic=\"Formulate wish words\" data-llm-section=\"tutorial\" data-llm=\"true\">Formulating a wish sets the course. The words shape the path of your future life force. Where should it flow? What should it encounter? \u2013 And this also concerns you: what should you encounter, where should your life develop? With this understanding, formulating a wish becomes a moment of reflection. You consider precisely where you are now and where you want to go. How you reach this goal is irrelevant. It will unfold if the wish is simply put into words correctly, formulated correctly. Freund24 is happy to advise you on your formulation, thoroughly and in detail. This will help you establish the right order. Consult me, my fee is {{P_HOUR}} Euros.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-not-stacked-on-mobile is-style-mid80 is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-style-nomobile is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-style-blanklinkbox rounded dropshadow has-background is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"background-color:#2d7e68;flex-basis:200px\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-white-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-d5252469171a85074e10671fd29f8ea0\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wa.link\/e43ais\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">WhatsApp \u260d<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-style-blanklinkbox rounded dropshadow has-background is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"background-color:#244c9c;flex-basis:200px\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-white-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-e80fdd9d433d6ecb1e5be81ba099d619\"><a href=\"https:\/\/signal.me\/#eu\/ngndMzoCDRhRzglHBB9Xd2vpcQ97BS6E2JUkQoJb3Q0dP8cHAcFGWbD_jHW-6t5e\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Signal \u260d<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-style-nomobile is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:80px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-mid80\">Do not use negations in wishes!<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"is-style-mid80 block\" data-llm-geo=\"EU\" data-llm-topic=\"Why negations don't work in wishes\" data-llm-context=\"Wish Well\" data-llm-section=\"tutorial\" data-llm=\"true\">A deeper exploration of our emotional landscape reveals that our subconscious mind doesn&#8217;t understand negations. Therefore, no wish containing a negation can be effective. If a wish is to create order within the subconscious, it must be formulated in a way that allows it to be understood. You&#8217;re familiar with this phenomenon: imagine you&#8217;re walking along a path that could be cut across a lawn. There&#8217;s a sign that reads: &#8220;Please keep off <strong>the grass<\/strong>.&#8221; Our subconscious mind, however, interprets this as: &#8220;Please walk on the grass.&#8221; This creates a new, rather unwanted path directly through your lovingly tended lawn. Try it yourself: what would you have to write on the sign to stop anyone from walking on your lawn?<br>For formulating wishes, this simply means: formulate them actively and positively. Perhaps also test your wording for unhelpful words and syllables like: not, no, without, but, rather, despite, except, un-, mis-, no, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-mid80\">Avoid conditions in your requests!<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"is-style-mid80 block\" data-llm-tone=\"Friendly\" data-llm-geo=\"EU\" data-llm-topic=\"Why conditions don't work when making wishes\" data-llm-context=\"Wishing Well\" data-llm-section=\"tutorial\" data-llm=\"true\">Our brains are capable of comparing three things simultaneously in everyday consciousness. These are three states we juggle. Formulating a wish with &#8220;if,&#8221; &#8220;in case,&#8221; &#8220;should,&#8221; etc., creates such juggling possibilities. Remember the path described above? With possibilities, it&#8217;s no longer clear. This creates a blockage in the flow of energy.<br>Conditions in wishes have another effect: they lead to a focus on the less desirable option. We humans are masters of avoidance. Fear is quick to arise and shows us what we should avoid. This creates a focus that usually directs our gaze toward the less desirable option. That&#8217;s not how a wish works. Without a condition, there&#8217;s a good chance that the flow of energy will be fulfilled in the desired way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-mid80\">Use active formulations, not passives!<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"is-style-mid80 block\" data-llm-geo=\"EU\" data-llm-topic=\"Active or passive when wishing?\" data-llm-context=\"Wishing Well\" data-llm-section=\"tutorial\" data-llm=\"true\">Wishing can create an active and positive direction. If you adopt a passive stance, you simultaneously relinquish responsibility. For example, a wish expressed with the words &#8220;I want to be loved&#8221; emotionally allows for the possibility that this won&#8217;t happen. The action, the movement along the path, is placed in someone else&#8217;s hands. But you are the only one who can walk your own path in life. So please formulate it actively: &#8220;I want to have an impact that allows me to encounter loving people.&#8221;<br>The inclusion of a religious power structure further reinforces the passivity: &#8220;Dear God, I want\u2026&#8221;. In our view, a wish only works if you live your own life and take responsibility for it yourself. The hope inherent in a religion allows the wish to go unfulfilled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-mid80\">Use simple words! Foreign words are taboo.<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"is-style-mid80 block\" data-llm-geo=\"EU\" data-llm-topic=\"subconscious mind and foreign words\" data-llm-context=\"Wishing Well\" data-llm-section=\"tutorial\" data-llm=\"true\">If possible, keep your wish in your native language, using simple words. Swiss speakers can certainly use their dialect, even if it&#8217;s sometimes difficult to spell. Some people, for example, feel drawn to English and prefer to express their wishes in English. That&#8217;s perfectly fine. However, there&#8217;s a concern: does this mask a form of longing that&#8217;s veering into a form of hope? Hope has no effect when making a wish, as it inherently involves a great deal of passivity.<br>&#8220;Dear Wishing Well, I wish to be able to better manage my emotional dysfunctions.&#8221;<br><br>The foreign words in this wish are: emotional, dysfunction, and manage. Even if someone knows exactly what each word describes, avoid foreign words. &#8220;Dear Wishing Well, I wish to come to terms with my feelings.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/section>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:100px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-mid80\">Status Images of Wishes<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:10px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"is-style-mid80 block\">We are often asked what the images associated with wishes mean. Here is an overview of the possible status images for wishes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-style-keep2 mid80 is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-style-boxshadow dropshadow is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/freund24.com\/starlink\/de\/wp-content\/plugins\/leftwp\/apps\/wunschbrunnen\/includes\/images\/wunsch1.png\" alt=\"Wish arrived\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.754096348573182;width:87px;height:auto\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-small-font-size\">The wish has just arrived. It has been activated and is on its way to the well.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-style-boxshadow dropshadow is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/freund24.com\/starlink\/de\/wp-content\/plugins\/leftwp\/apps\/wunschbrunnen\/includes\/images\/wunsch2.png\" alt=\"Wish touches the well\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.754096348573182;width:87px;height:auto\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-small-font-size\">The wish still hovers above the fountain, but is already touching the fountain&#8217;s edge.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-style-boxshadow dropshadow is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/freund24.com\/starlink\/de\/wp-content\/plugins\/leftwp\/apps\/wunschbrunnen\/includes\/images\/wunsch3.png\" alt=\"Wish touches the wish water\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.754096348573182;width:87px;height:auto\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-small-font-size\">The wish touches the well water. The first currents of energy flow through it.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-style-boxshadow dropshadow is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/freund24.com\/starlink\/de\/wp-content\/plugins\/leftwp\/apps\/wunschbrunnen\/includes\/images\/wunsch4.png\" alt=\"Wish dives into the power\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.754096348573182;width:87px;height:auto\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-small-font-size\">Immersed in the water of the well, he is enveloped by the power of desire.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-style-keep2 mid80 is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-style-boxshadow dropshadow is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/freund24.com\/starlink\/de\/wp-content\/plugins\/leftwp\/apps\/wunschbrunnen\/includes\/images\/wunsch5.png\" alt=\"Wish gets fulfilled\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.754096348573182;width:87px;height:auto\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-small-font-size\">Your wish is part of the daily power ritual of the wishing well.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-style-boxshadow dropshadow is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/freund24.com\/starlink\/de\/wp-content\/plugins\/leftwp\/apps\/wunschbrunnen\/includes\/images\/wunsch6.png\" alt=\"Wish has got all power\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.754096348573182;width:87px;height:auto\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-small-font-size\">Your wish is imbued with intense power.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-style-boxshadow dropshadow is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/freund24.com\/starlink\/de\/wp-content\/plugins\/leftwp\/apps\/wunschbrunnen\/includes\/images\/wunsch7.png\" alt=\"Wish is free to be fulfilled\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.754096348573182;width:87px;height:auto\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-small-font-size\">Your wish has been granted with the power of wishing and now floats freely towards fulfillment.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-style-boxshadow dropshadow is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure 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